Lower your expectation of an emotional relationship or communion. The narcissist only responds if you do things their way or feed the inflated sense of self. Frame situations in terms of how it will serve the narcissist.
If you feel you have been a victim of someone suffering from NPD please seek help in dealing with the feelings family and friends are subjected to by the narcissist. I have found some extremely informative videos on understanding the narcissist by Sam Vakrin, author of "Malignant Self-Love: Narcissism Revisited". You can see one of his videos here ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0-Yc5069jRs&NR=1 ) or do a search for his name on YouTube.
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